EP80 How Parental Alienation Can Create Life Long Consequences with Shalina Lodhia

In this episode, I'm chatting with Shalina Lodhia.  Shalina is a multifaceted woman-of-colour: a trauma counsellor, master NLP & CBT practitioner, life & career coach, resume writer, musician/producer & livestream host of 'real&raw: Conversations with Shalina'. She has lived experience of parental alienation, abandonment & grief, bullying, racism, intergenerational trauma, depression & suicidal ideation. 

In this episode you'll learn:

• The impact of fatherlessness on Shalina’s life growing up and how it continues to impact it to this day
• Intergenerational trauma and the far reaching effects it can have in a family line
• How fatherlessness impacts mothers who are raising children without a partner
• The interplay between growing up without a father and the mother wound
• The role of grief work in trauma healing and how both are often necessary 
• The importance of non-attachment when it comes to our emotions and allowing them to pass through us instead of being consumed by them 

For more from Shalina:

http://www.sed8.co

http://www.instagram.com/sed8_  

www.facebook.com/shalinalodhia

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A radical mother is a woman poised in her power ready to disrupt cycles of generational trauma running through her family like wildfire. She's working to improve her life, the lives of her children, and shape the landscape of her community. If that's you - you're in the right place. 

This podcast is designed to connect you with resources, inspiration, and the reminder that you are not alone as you embark on your journey of radical mothering.

I’m your host Christa Bevan and I’m a nervous system educator for cycle breaker moms as well as a certified TRE (trauma releasing exercises) provider, and a trauma-informed yoga instructor. And of course, a fellow Radical Mother. My approach to this work blends neuroscience backed tools and heart-centered intuition.

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